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Pictures of Havana, Cuba

08 Jun

As I said in my last Cuba post, I took so many pictures during our short trip (I can’t imagine what would happen if I went for a month and visited more places… hope to do that someday with Bebé) that I decided to divide them into two groups, one with pictures of family and friends and one with pictures of Havana.

I hope that in some small way you can smell the gasoline fumes in the air, hear the rumble of the classic cars, taste the cold Cristal beer, hear the music in the streets and feel the intense Caribbean heat.

Fishing boats and El Morro…

 

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Papi’s street in Luyano…

 

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Classic cars…

 

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Bebé shouts “Cuba!” everytime he sees the American flag. I think he is a little confused by his multi-cultural roots.

 

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Street performance in Havana…

 

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Best. Beer. Ever.

 

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Congas & Bongos…

 

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Have never stepped foot in this famous place! lol

 

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Seems like we’re headed the right way.

 

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Luyano…

 

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Motorcycle & sidecar…

 

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My favorite shot!

 

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My other favorite shot!

 

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Traffic jam in Havana…

 

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Filming a movie on the Malecon…

 

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Drinking the Best. Beer. Ever. on the stoop…

 

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My other favorite shot!

 

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Watching the tourists walk by…

 

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*True story… while walking in Old Havana I saw a girl wearing the same Old Navy skirt that I had on!

 
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Our Visit to Cuba

03 Jun

Last week Papi, Bebé and I went to Cuba. Although we are getting divorced, I love his family dearly and was very excited to see them. I was also thrilled that Bebé would be able to spend some much-needed time with his big sister, grandparents and Tia Tata (Aunt Tata, Bebé’s sister’s mother).

I love to take pictures in Cuba. I took so many that I will have to do two posts about our trip, one with pictures of family and friends and one with pictures of Havana.

It’s difficult to describe the joy of being with loved ones that we don’t get to see often. Papi was so happy to spend time with both of his babies at the same time.

 

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Big sister is getting prettier everyday, isn’t she? The day after we arrived Papi and I took the kids to Habana Vieja.

 

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Bebé couldn’t wait for his pony ride! (He’s scared of people dressed in Buzz and Woody costumes but he’ll ride a horse… strange.)

 

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And of course he found some drums during our excursion.

 

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The next day some friends came to visit so we just hung around the barrio.

 

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With Abuela…

 

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The whole gang…

 

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With the neighbor kids… fits right in, doesn’t he?

 

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The third day while big sister was at school Papi and I took Bebé to Vedado and Habana Vieja. I wanted to buy some souvenirs and Bebé wanted to ride the ponies again. Unfortunately the ponies weren’t around that day but I did purchase some Cuban treasures, we rode in a “Coco” (fun deathtrap) and Bebé had a pizza (it was pretty much the only thing he would eat during the trip).

 

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Finally it was our last night there (Papi stayed longer to spend more time with his family) so of course Bebé wanted to cramp his sister’s style and hang out with her friends on the stoop. Doesn’t she look thrilled? And her weird stepmother was taking pictures of it all.

 

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We said good-bye to big sister that night as she would be at school long before we awoke the next morning. I started to tear up and thought about how grateful we are for these precious visits. We’re hoping big sister will come to Cancun next year for her 15th birthday. She wants to go shopping at the mall, something she’s never been able to do.

 

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Stay tuned for pictures of Havana…

 

 

El Dia del Niño in Cancun

15 May

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I remember asking my mom, “Why don’t we celebrate Children’s Day?” Her answer, “Every day is Children’s Day around here.” Well Children’s Day may be all but ignored in the U.S. but in Mexico señores it’s a big deal! It’s called Día del Niño.

Bebé’s daycare had a huge par-tay for all the kids and parents. Just in case you missed him, here’s Papi with Bebé before we left for the party.  (No we’re not getting back together.)

 

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At the fiesta, the “Misses” (the girls who take care of the kids) put on shows.

 

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Then the kids got involved. Below you’ll see them dancing to Gangnam Style… too funny.

 

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Then the parents particpated in games with the kids. So much fun! I played basketball with the moms and scored all three baskets for our team. :) I played basketball in middle and high school and I kind of hated it, but I think I would love it now!

 

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Finally it was time to eat, then pinata time, then cake time. Oh, the kids did some swimming in there somewhere too.

 

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El Día del Niño! Si señor!

 

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Even though there wasn’t any beer we had fun. Sometime during the party I noticed a strange spot on Bebé’s neck, but I didn’t think too much about it. Two days later I dropped him at daycare in the morning and by the time I picked him up he was covered in spots. Yes, chicken pox.

Happy Children’s Day Mom!

 

The Dissolution of a Marriage (mine unfortunately)

29 Apr

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You may have noticed that Papi hasn’t appeared in any posts in awhile.

That’s because we’re getting divorced.

Although it’s always terribly sad when a family breaks up, sometimes it’s just necessary. I consider myself lucky, in our case things are very civil. Papi still comes over to take care of Bebé each weekday morning and on Friday evenings we all have a meal together.

I won’t go into whose fault this is (It’s all his fault of course. hahahaha) because it simply doesn’t matter. There are no regrets here, at least on my part. We shared a lot of wonderful times together and had our precious son. I will always consider Papi and his family, my family. His daughter will always be my step-daughter and of course, Bebé’s big sister. Just as his ex and I (well his other ex, ha) have always done, I will continue to do my best to make sure that everyone feels like they are part of this extended family.

Of course, the person I am most worried about is my precious Bebé. There is nothing more painful for a mother than to see her child in pain. Papi left the house in January and for the most part Bebé is doing well. He has his moments, and he misses his Papá, particularly when he is being punished by Mamá, but I do believe he is beginning to understand (as much as a 3 year old can) that he will still have both of us.

I must mention how the support of my family and particularly my friends has reminded me just how lucky I am to have so many wonderful people in my life.

Nobody gets married wanting or expecting to get divorced. The disappointment and sadness is palpable when it happens, but I mourned my marriage during my marriage, so I am on the other side now.

It’s very sad, but please don’t feel sorry for me. Today I am a very happy woman. I only hope with all my heart that my decision does not cause anyone else to be unhappy.

 

The Truth about Violence and Crime in Cancun

23 Apr

 

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Recently my posts have been about fun in the sun and include a lot of pretty beach pictures, but this time I have something I need to get off my chest…

I am sick and tired of sensational media reports, and more specifically headlines, about recent events in Cancun.

Around Spring Break time, there was a bombing in a bar in Cancun, a bar which is in an area where no tourists (nor this local) would ever go.  We’re not talking downtown Cancun, where you’ll find Market 28 and Walmart, we’re talking way past downtown. What upsets me is that media outlets, particularly North American media outlets, reported this event with headlines like “Spring Break Nightmare: Bombing in Cancun Bar”. Are you kidding me? This sort or sensationalized reporting (or well, lying) infuriates me.  Frankly, it’s just irresponsible. These people call themselves journalists?

Within the last month or so, 7 people were found dead on the outskirts of Cancun. Maybe somewhere near that bar, but once again, somewhere no tourist (nor this local) would ever go. I actually saw one headline that said, “7 strangled, 1 decapitated in Mexican tourist resort” Seriously?

The article does go on to say that the bodies were found in a shack on the outskirts of the city of Cancun, but the problem is that these headlines stick in people’s heads. The media outlet may be getting more clicks but they aren’t getting more loyal readers and they’re ruining the reputation of a city that depends on tourism.

There was a terrible, scary bombing at the Boston Marathon last week. Will you stay away from the city of Boston because of that bombing?

Is Cancun safe for tourists? Yes. I’m not saying nothing ever happens, but there is crime and violence in every large city in Mexico, as well as in the U.S. and many other countries. I have family members and friends who visit on a regular basis, and all of them would tell you that they have never felt threatened in any way.

Maybe we should ask ourselves, why does Mexico’s violence seem scarier to us?

 

A Perfect Day in Cancun

01 Apr

 

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Last week Bebé and I spent the day at a small hotel in the HoZo (aka the Hotel Zone). It’s always fun to go with friends, but the fact that it was just the two of us made it a special day.

I actually used to work for the company that used to own this hotel, and I have always loved it. It has a lot of character and it’s very small, I hope the new owners don’t change it too much.

Bebé found a playmate to share his toys with and we had a wonderful, relaxing day. There’s not too much more to say, in this case, the pictures tell the story.

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We avoided the beach this weekend due to Spring break / Easter vacation, but soon the tourists will head back to real life and Bebé and I will head back to the beach. :)

 

The Spring Festival / La Festival de Primavera in Cancun

25 Mar

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One thing I like about daycare in Mexico is their love of festivals and costumes.

Last year Bebé was a Bumblebee for the Spring Festival. This year the daycare asked that he come dressed as a bird. There are all kinds of costumes available, you can get them at Walmart or even the fancy costume shop in Malecon Americas, but I usually buy Bebé’s at Mercado 23 (Market 23) a place I have grown to love to visit.

I only got one smile out of Bebé, these events are always fun and exciting but they can also be a little overwhelming. In addition I have a feeling that he is going to take after his sister, who almost never smiles in pictures… see?

 

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She’s a beauty though! Here’s the one smile I got out of him…

 

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It’s not really a smile, is it? But at least he looks happy.

The Spring Festival really only consists of the kids dressing up, having a little parade, dancing, and then refreshments are served.

For the most part Bebé has given up sucking his thumb, but this is his newest habit, his fingers are in his mouth all of the time. He bits his fingernails too.

 

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His pal looks thrilled, doesn’t he?

 

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One of Malcolm’s besties… a gorgeous little chicken. Isn’t she adorable? They’ll go to school together next year.

 

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Finger in mouth again…

 

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And they’re off! (Of course Mommy was running in front of them like an idiot trying to get a good picture. lol)

 

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I’m not even sure what kind of bird Bebé was, lol, does anyone know?

 

 

Xcaret Mexico Espectacular Night Show

15 Mar

Espectacular indeed!

Although I had been to Xcaret many times before, I had never been to the night show,  so when I had an opportunity to go, I took it! This year Xcaret is saying good-bye to Mexico Espectacular, which has been featured for about 10 years. Soon a new show will make its debut, so I saw it just in the nick of time.

I was really excited for Bebé to see the show. Live performances are the only thing he will sit still for!

We arrived a few hours before the show in order to experience some of the culture, nature and fun that Xcaret has to offer…

First we took a ride on Rio Paraiso (Paradise River).  It was beautiful and peaceful… no motor, just a young man and a long stick. I have no idea how he kept us from crashing into the limestone walls.

 

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After checking out some of Xcaret’s wildlife, like monkeys and jaguars, we headed to one of my favorite places, the cemetery. I know it’s sounds strange to say this about a cemetery, but it’s so charming!

 

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Self-portrait…

 

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Next we visited the aquarium, the jellyfish are always cool to see.

 

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After visiting the sharks and turtles, we checked out the lagoon area and Bebé showed me where we should head next.

 

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Now it was time to head to the horse show. Mexican horsemen and women are called “charros” and “charras”. I love their colorful costumes. Charras ride sidesaddle!

 

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Xcaret’s church sits right next to the area where the horse show takes place. It is breathtaking. I had never been inside!

 

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Finally it was time to head to the night show. There were all kinds of surprises along the way… the Mayan warrior woman below may look tough here, but she couldn’t resist Bebé’s wave and smiled and waved back at him.

 

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Standing guard!

 

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When we arrived at the theater, Mommy got a coffee, and then found some great seats! Before the show candles are distributed to the entire audience. Beautiful!

 

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The show is nothing short of spectacular. I was surprised that I felt a special sense of pride. I have lived in this country for 12 years and I will soon be a Mexican citizen. After all this time I finally truly feel like I am part of Mexico.

 

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These pictures don’t do the show justice. You must see it live. The music is at times haunting and at others joyful, from the Mayan flute to the drums of Veracruz to the lively mariachi.

I can’t wait to see the new Xcaret Night Show!

A few Xcaret Tips:

If you have small children, bring or rent a stroller. You will do a lot of walking.

If you can, buy a two day pass. There is so much to see.  If not, check out their website and maps and figure out ahead of time what you want to do/see for sure.

Xcaret’s buffets are yummy. Go for the Xcaret Plus package which includes one buffet lunch.

 

 

Piña Coladas on Isla Mujeres

19 Feb

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A couple of weeks ago Bebé and I headed to Isla Mujeres with our Canadian friends. Since I’ve already posted about Isla Mujeres a few (million) times, I’ll share some pictures that are a little different from the normal “tour around the island” pictures.

Now don’t get me wrong, we did do the tour around the island, as our friends had never been there (Gasp!). As usual, it was spectacular.

 

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When we got downtown we stopped at Minino’s to get the best piña coladas in the world (seriously) to go. Then I have no idea why, but we hung out on the side of the road for awhile.

 

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Next, we headed to Chi-Chita’s on North Beach, where we ate and swam and drank…

 

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…until a monsoon hit! (Well not really a monsoon but oh my gosh it rained really hard.) We were having so much fun that we didn’t even mind. We just headed to the palapa (read: bar).

 

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When the rain let up a little bit we went to drop our golf cart off and went back to Minino’s for a snack and more piña coladas (seriously they are that good). Bebé really enjoyed the tortilla chips. Every single one of them.

 

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It was another amazing Isla day and we have another one coming up soon. Our friends have returned home to chilly Windsor, but hopefully their tropical memories will keep them warm until their next visit.

 

 

A Perfect Day at La Playa Xpu-Ha in the Riviera Maya

12 Feb

Last year during a day at La Playa Xpu-Ha we met some great guys from Canada. This year, they’re back, so Bebé and I returned to Xpu-Ha to spend a wonderful day on the beach with them.

After picking them up from their condo in Puerto Aventuras and taking Bebé to see the dolphins, sea lions and manatees at the Dolphin Discovery complex, we headed to La Playa.

The beach club still charges for the umbrellas and chairs closest to the water, which really irritates me, haha, but we found a great spot in the second row.

 

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First row.

 

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My view of the sky from the second row.

 

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After drinking A LOT of beer, we were hungry, so we moved to a table on the deck to have lunch. It was delicious. See for yourself…

 

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Ceviche, fish soup, tortilla chips and Pacifico.

 

While we were eating, Bebé turned a hammock into a swing to entertain himself.

 

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Then he got a little sleepy and decide to lie down on the hammock.

 

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Then he got really sleepy and took a nap on his mommy. These are heavenly mommy moments.

 

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After Bebé’s nap he found a gorgeous little playmate.

 

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I had planned on heading home after the beach, but instead we went back to our friends’ condo to enjoy the pool. It certainly woke us up…it was freezing!

 

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Then we ordered pizza and chatted for hours while Bebé watched his favorite shows on youtube. When it was time to go we didn’t want to say good-bye, but luckily we knew we’d see our dear friends again for a trip to Isla Mujeres (yes again) before they headed back to chilly Canada.