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waterfront Rio Lagartos

July 5, 2016
by admin

A Weekend in Rio Lagartos at Yuum Ha Boutique Hotel

I have lived in Cancun for 15 years, but I haven’t explored the Yucatan Peninsula very much. I’ve been to Tulum, and to all of the towns on the way down, but besides two hurried trips to Merida and one day trip to Valladolid, I hadn’t traveled to the west or the north.

Recently that all changed. I couple of weeks ago Bebé, some friends and I spent a weekend in Rio Lagartos, a small town that is home to a UNESCO Biosphere Reserve, which is located on the northern coast of the Yucatan Peninsula in the state of Yucatan (Cancun is in the state of Quintana Roo). Now we all know I love my all-inclusives, but this was a delightful, unforgettable adventure.

We started the weekend by taking the scenic route to Rio Lagartos. You can see where it is relative to Cancun on the map below. Most people take the pay highway to Valladolid, and then the “highway” (so very narrow, no shoulder) north to Rio Lagartos.

Now imagine a twisty, turny route running northwest from Cancun to Tizimin through Mayan villages. That was our route.

Yucatan Peninsula map

Map: Mexconnect

It took forever, but I loved it! We passed through countless little villages of varying sizes, where many people still have pole and thatch houses (basically sticks with a palapa on top). Every single town had a government-constructed basketball court (Who knows?). We saw cows and horses tied up in front of houses, and stray dogs lying in the street completely unworried about traffic. And we crossed over “topes” (speed bumps), lots and lots of topes.

The kids asked if we were almost there some 100 times.

When we arrived in Rio Lagartos we hurried to dinner, as they were keeping the restaurant, La Torreja, open for us. We were a little perplexed since it was only about 8pm, but we quickly learned that things open late, close early and move slowly in this small fishing town. The menu was representative of most waterfront restaurants in Mexican costal towns, shrimp, fish, octopus, chicken and beef prepared in various delicious ways.

Finally it was time to check out our hotel, Yuum Ha Boutique Hotel. Yuum Ha is a comfortable, modern oasis in a town full of hotels and inns that can only be described as rustic. Yuum Ha offers free WiFi, comfortable beds, air-conditioning, lovely showers with rain shower heads and bathtubs, closets with lots of space and smart TVs with cable.

hotels Rio Lagartos

where to say Rio Lagartos

Photo courtesy of Yuum Ha Boutique Hotel

This was the view from our room…

hotel Rio Lagartos

This is the view from their patio…

waterfront Rio Lagartos

bed and breakfast Rio Lagartos

The next morning we were up bright and early for our Flamingo Tour. Diego Nuñuz, owner of Rio Lagartos Adventures (and various other things around town) was under the weather, but he left us in good hands with Francisco aka Paco. We boarded the small boat and he whisked us off to a group of flamingos that were very close.

Paco offered lots of info about the flamingos and after oohing and ahhing about the sounds they made and how beautiful they are, we headed deep into the “ria” (estuary). Occasionally a flock of flamingos would fly by, and they were much faster than the boat was at full speed.

Rio Lagartos flamingo tours

We go to the beach quite often, but we don’t spend much time in really natural places. The ria is absolutely breathtaking. No buildings, no docks, no airplanes, no people, just glorious nature, and a few other small boats. Every once in awhile Paco would quickly turn to the right or left to show us a black eagle, or a herron, or a crocodile.

Rio Lagartos nature tours

Yes, a crocodile. Paco called it as if it was his dog, by gently slapping his “chancla” or flip flop on the water’s surface. Then he pet it on the head. At times it was only about a foot or so away from us. The kids were thrilled. It was truly an unforgettable moment.

Rio Lagartos boat tours

Next stop was “Las Coloradas” aka the pink lakes. The reason the lakes are pink is because of the high content of salt and minerals. In fact, there is a huge salt factory next to Las Coloradas. Kelly aka Cancun Canuck and I went swimming in the pink lakes and found we were extra “floaty” in the salty water.

Las Coloradas Rio Lagartos

After “rinsing off” in the only slightly less salty ria, we make our way to the “Baño Maya” for a Mayan mud bath. Paco dug deep and scooped out some mud, which was odorless and felt very similar to an expensive mask you would buy in the cosmetics department. Felt good to get dirty from head to toe!

Mayan Mud Bath Rio Lagartos

Photo courtesy of Cancun Canuck

Now it was time for a swim at a completely natural, sublime beach. We kind of wanted to stay there all day, but alas we had no water and we were starving and you had to stay in the water the whole time because the “tábanos” (which loosely translates to “stupid horseflies that I am extremely allergic to”) were on a rampage.

Ria Rio Lagartos

Rio Lagartos tours

beach Rio Lagartos

beaches Rio Lagartos

Photo Courtesy of Cancun Canuck

After a quick shower to rinse off all of “the nature”, we had breakfast at La Torreja and I quite literally scarfed down these yummy “huevos divorciados”.

restaurants Rio Lagartos

We agreed that after a short rest we would explore the town on the golf cart. Dinner was at 6pm, so we headed out at 3pm.

We drove along the “malecon” (boardwalk) to Chiquila lagoon where locals go to cool off. Max wanted a “chicharron” (with everything por favor).

Chiquila Rio Lagartos

Then we drove into town, and well, drove around in circles (it’s not very big) while the few locals that were outside during “siesta” time stared at us. Bebé, who didn’t rest during rest time, fell asleep on the golf cart. (It is getting a lot more difficult to carry him up stairs when he falls asleep in random places.) We giggled about how our big exploration of the town lasted exactly one hour.

boardwalk Rio Lagartos

visit Rio Lagartos


downtown Rio Lagartos

town Rio Lagartos

That night we headed to Restaurante Ria Maya for dinner. This cozy restaurant with a huge palapa roof is on the second floor and has a spectacular view of the sparkling ria and its sunsets. I had the “Camarones a la Diabla” (shrimp in a spicy red sauce). One word: Goooood. Wish I had some more of it right now.


seafood Rio Lagartos

waterfront restaurants Rio Lagartos

After dinner we had beers on the dock across from Yuum Ha and watched the sunset.

sunset Rio Lagartos

And the kids found what is quite possibly the best swing in the world.

In the morning we were on the road right after breakfast. We had decided to take the faster way home and make a stop in “Pueblo Magico” (Magic Town) Valladolid. I was a little worried that the drive home would be boring without all the pueblos but we did go through a couple and Tizimin was an interesting little city to drive through.

I hadn’t been to Valladolid in 15 years. It is now much larger and busier, but the downtown area and “zocalo” (town square) haven’t lost their charm. It was Sunday so there were vendors set up right in the zocalo. The kids were happy to be out of the car for a while.

kissing chairs Valladolid Mexico

fountain Valladolid

We bought a few things and had some delicious ice cream. I had “Queso de Bola” (Edam “ball” cheese) flavor. They had other unique flavors like “Elote” (corn).

ice cream Valladolid

I have been looking for the perfect turquoise necklace and I found it! (I love hearts.)

jewelry Valladolid

town square zocalo Valladolid

It was time to get back to Cancun to do the grocery shopping and laundry, so we hopped on the (boring but fast) toll road and sped back to the big city. However, I think I’ve got the bug now, and you may see posts of more road trips to Rio Lagartos or other parts of the Yucatan Peninsula.

Playacar Palace view

June 13, 2016
by admin

Playacar Palace: You won’t be sorry!

Last week was a cloudy, rainy week in Cancun, but a couple of weeks ago Bebé and I spent a sunny weekend in Playa de Carmen at Playacar Palace. Here’s the lowdown…

The resort is small compared to many all-inclusives, with just 201 rooms, but this gives it an intimate feel. No golf cart or bus rides to dinner here, everything is just a few steps away.

Playacar is a quiet, private neighborhood in Playa de Carmen, and Playacar Palace is located right next to the entrance, making it easy to walk to 5th Avenue and all of its shops, restaurants, cafes, bars and nightclubs, but we never left the property, because it provided everything we could possible want or need.

The Room

Playacar Palace oceanview room

Photo: Palace Resorts

Palace Resorts don’t fool around. The rooms are fully stocked and include free WiFi (in fact it’s throughout the resort and it’s good too), in-room hot tub, a liquor dispenser, mini bar with soda, bottled water, juice and beer, a bottle of red wine (one upon arrival), toiletries, hair dryer and flat iron, iron and ironing board, robes and slippers, safe, coffee maker, phone, alarm clock and smart TV with satellite programming.


Why take a shower when you can take a bath in a hot tub?

The room also includes turn down service and unlimited long distance calls to the U.S. and Canada.

We had a balcony with a spectacular view.

Playacar Palace view

Plus, it was just so… comfortable!

The Pool and Beach

Playacar Palace’s pool isn’t huge, but there is a busy, active end with a swim-up pool bar, and a quieter, laid-back end, which includes a shallow area for children. There are plenty of lounge chairs and umbrellas.

Unfortunately, as in all resorts, people play “the towel game” here, but the resort doesn’t use those annoying towel cards, which is great.

Playacar Palace pool

The beach is breathtaking, wide and not crowded. There are tons of lounge chairs and umbrellas, a volleyball court and an area to play beach soccer.

Playacar Palace Playa del Carmen

Playacar Palace beach


The Food


Resort food can be inconsistent, but I never had a bad meal at Playacar Palace. Even the dinner buffet, which I always try to avoid, was good. The resort has three restaurants; the main buffet and two a la carte restaurants (Asian and Italian). All three are very close together and right in the center of the property. Reservations were not required for the a la cartes, but I have a feeling they may be during high season.

Room service was very good. One day we ordered lunch and I had this absolutely scrumptious torta de cochinita. (Cochinita is is a traditional Mexican/Mayan slow-roasted pork dish. Pork is marinated in strongly acidic citrus juice and seasoned with annatto seed and then wrapped in banana leaf and roasted.)

Playacar Palace lunch

Bebé suggested we eat on the balcony which was lovely!

Another day we ordered room service for breakfast through one of my favorite Palace programs; in the rooms there are doorknob tags that you can fill out with your breakfast order the evening before. They offer a huge selection and you can choose what time you want it delivered as well.

Playacar Palace room service breakfast

The service and food in the Asian and Italian a la carte restaurants were excellent.

Playacar Palace Asian restaurant


The snacks by the pool are made to order and they offer more than just the usual hamburgers, hot dogs and nachos.

I love it when resorts have a kids’ menu that is available in ALL of their restaurants, as Palace Resorts do. It really takes the worrying out of what your picky kid is going to eat during your stay.

The Activities and Kids Club

Bebé and I took full advantage of the daily and nightly activities at Playacar Palace. He played beach volleyball a couple of times and tried the stand-up paddleboard. He also did a lot of good old goofing around.

Playacar Palace activities

Playacar Palace paddle board


I did the water aerobics class twice, tried the stand-up paddleboard and participated in the paddle board yoga class. Don’t expect to see pictures of this. 😀

The activities staff was fun, friendly and attentive. You can tell they really care about making sure the guests enjoy themselves.

Bebé generally does not want to stay in kids clubs by himself, but he asked to a couple of times during this stay for one reason, the staff made him feel comfortable. The kids club is open from 10am to 10pm.

Playacar Palace features nightly shows. We saw the Mayan show and the Breakdance (Dance Evolution) show and they were both very entertaining. We have seen the breakdance show before and it is really something to see, especially the jump rope portion. Bebé was in awe of these guys.

Dance Evolution Cancun Playa del Carmen

One of my favorite activities was having cocktails in the lobby bar.



Playacar Palace also offers a gym, a spa and a tennis court. Free transportation to and from Moon Palace is available daily with a reservation.

Without hesitation I would highly recommend Playacar Palace or any of the Palace Resorts to anyone planning a vacation in Cancun or Playa del Carmen.

Now if I could just figure out how to get to the Moon Palace Jamaica Grande…

pool Westin Cancun

May 10, 2016
by admin

A Visit to Westin Resort & Spa Cancun

Bebé and I recently spent the weekend at Westin Resort & Spa Cancun. We love our weekend getaways, but I was extra excited this time because I had just gotten a new phone with a better camera.

Westin Resort & Spa Cancun is located at the very end of the Hotel Zone, close to the airport. It sits on a spectacular beach, the perfect, white sand, aqua blue Caribbean, Cancun beach.

beach Westin Cancun

Towel looks like a cape… Super Beach Bebé!

What makes the Westin Cancun different than many resorts we visit is that it is not exclusively all-inclusive, so it’s a good option for those who prefer a breakfast-only or European plan. This is an older resort, but it’s very clean and well-maintained.

After we checked-in we headed to our room, which was a Master Suite. I think it was larger than my condo! It had a huge living room and dining room, a half bath, a large bedroom with a hot tub in the bathroom, and a balcony that ran the length of the suite. #sweetdigs

Master Suite Westin Cancun

Our room had a coffee maker, a hair dryer, bath amenities, robes and slippers, a telephone, two TVs with satellite programming, an iron and ironing board, a clock radio with an iPod docking station and a safe.

We received a warm welcome, and it was obvious they had done their research. #wine #soccer


The view from the room was spectacular, day and night.

Cancun skyline



We had access to the Royal Beach Club, which has a restaurant/bar and a pool. We were there every evening from 5 – 7 pm for Happy Hour (Free cocktails and snacks!)

Royal Beach Club Westin Cancun

The second evening we were there, we met a family from New Jersey. Bebé had fun playing with the twins and it was so nice for me to have some fun adults to chat with.


We also had breakfast in the Royal Beach Club each morning. It isn’t a huge buffet, but they had all our favorites, including mimosas and Bebé’s favorite vacation treat, Fruit Loops.

Speaking of food, I was very impressed with the restaurants at the Westin Cancun Resort & Spa.

The second night we dined at Arrecifes, which serves Mexican gourmet cuisine. I had a creative appetizer of “tacos” (jicama, a white tuber, was used in place of tortillas) and a delicious risotto with huitlacoche (corn smut, yes I know it sounds gross, but it’s delicious).

Arrecifes Westin Cancun

The third night we ate at Sea & Stones, which is right on the beach. They serve steaks and pizzas cooked in a wood-burning oven. I ordered the chorizo pizza and it was absolutely scrumptious. Bebé asked me if I was going to eat it all and I told him that I would like to, but I didn’t think I could.

Sea & Stones Westin Cancun

There are a few other restaurants including El Palmar (buffet breakfast, a la carte dinner), Sunset Bar (lunch and snacks) and The Place (gourmet appetizers).

It is important to note that the restaurants in the Westin Cancun will cater to any special food needs, like vegetarian, gluten-free or vegan.

The resort has a lot of pools including two large pools in the center of the property (one overlooks the lagoon and the other overlooks the ocean and has a swim-up pool bar), three small pools and the pool at the Royal Beach club. The depths vary so there’s something for everyone.

pool Westin Cancun

The highlight of our visit (at least for me) was my visit to the Heavenly Spa. Heavenly indeed!! I had the Heavenly Massage (of course) which involved heated compresses and essential oil blends. I left the Heavenly Spa feeling more relaxed than I have probably ever felt, no exaggeration.

While I was at the spa, Bebé hung at the kids club. He made a tie-dye t-shirt which he loved and insisted on wearing to dinner the following two evenings under his dress shirts. The kids club is simple, but it has a full schedule of daily activities from 9am to 5pm. We went back to the kids club on Saturday with the family we had met and the kids got to demolish a piñata since it was Día de Niños (Children’s Day) and feed the wild iguanas that live on the property.

Westin Cancun kids club

There were two programs at the resort that I thought were really great… for 5 bucks, the resort will lend you New Balance workout gear, shoes and all, and you get to keep the socks. Love this. A great idea!!

The other… the resort is pet-friendly! They welcome pets weighing 40 pounds or less, and they even get their own special bed and dish. (Note: Pet owners must sign a liability waiver at check-in which covers cleaning fees, noise disturbance and other matters. Dogs must be leashed at all times, and are not permitted in the resort restaurants, bars, swimming pool and beach areas, spa, gym and tennis courts.)

They also offers outdoor tennis courts, a gym, a business center and free WiFi with an option to pay to upgrade to high-speed internet. The staff is warm and accommodating.

Westin Resort & Spa Cancun is a good option for those who are not into the activities and shows that all-inclusive resorts provide. We had a wonderful weekend!

fashionable woven beach bag

March 28, 2016
by admin

Boutique Mexico: Modern Fashion with Traditional Roots

For those who love Mexico and fashion, it can be difficult to find clothing and bags that are created using traditional methods, yet look modern. It’s possible to find some items in markets, but many seem a bit doudy or outdated, and believe it or not, some may not actually be made in Mexico!

That’s where Boutique Mexico comes in.

Boutique Mexico is an online boutique that offers clothes, bags, accessories and gifts. What makes these items special is that they are colorful, fashionable, modern versions of traditional Mexican pieces.

Mexican dresses

otomi purse

Mexican jewelry

Boutique Mexico’s founder Jenn Olson has visited many Mayan communities, which are quite literally located in the jungle, far from large cities like Cancun and Playa del Carmen that are filled with tourists.  During these visits she would speak with artisans and see the beautiful things they create. She realized they had no way of selling them to tourists, so she started to work with them.  She gives them a design and they bring it to life using their tradition weaving and embroidery skills.  This results in modernized styles created using ancient traditions.

By working directly with artists, Boutique Mexico ensures they are being paid a fair wage and don’t have to leave their homes or their families to earn a living. In addition, the materials used to create the items are sourced in Mexico. This type of arrangement is known as “slow fashion”,  which “encourages taking time to ensure quality production, to give value to the product, and contemplate the connection with the environment”. (Source: notjustalabel.com)

In other words, this is fashion you can feel good about.

fashionable plastic woven beach bag

fashionable woven beach bag

Recently I went on a search for a new beach bag. I went to Market 28, Market 23, Plaza Outlet and La Gran Plaza (all located in Cancun) and I could not find the kind of bag I was looking for. The only place that had exactly what I wanted was Boutique Mexico.

I used my gorgeous new bag for the first time a couple of weekends ago.

What makes this bag so awesome is the fact that it’s made of durable woven plastic yet still looks well-made and stylish. Plus no big deal if gets wet!!

fashionable beach bags

You don’t have to live in Cancun or even Mexico to shop at Boutique Mexico. If you are staying at a Cancun or Riviera Maya resort Boutique Mexico will deliver your order to your hotel or resort within 24 hours.

If you are not in Cancun or Rivera Maya they will ship your product anywhere in the world using FedEx.

Update: Mami got another Boutique Mexico bag! Behold my custom black Mini Stella… perfect for a casual night out on the town!

Mexican woven bags

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March 14, 2016
by admin

Cancun’s La Habichuela Downtown, Revisited

I lived here for 14 years without visiting La Habichuela, one of Cancun’s best restaurants. Now I’ve been there twice in one year, and frankly, if I were invited again next week I’d be cool with that.

La Habichuela is a Cancun classic. This restaurant is almost old as Cancun is, but that isn’t why you should dine there. You should dine there because the cuisine, service and ambiance are stellar.

My date for the most recent visit (and actually for the first visit as well) was famous Cancun blogger/friend Kelly McLaughlin of cancuncanuck.com. Our kids were not invited, which was perfectly fine with us. (We love our kids but c’mon everyone deserves a mommies’ night out once in awhile.)

We began with mojitos. ¡Salud!

fine dining Cancun

The interior of La Habichuela is warm and inviting, but the garden is the place to be. It feels a bit like dining in an ancient Mayan ruin in the jungle, and at dusk, the twinkling lights come on. (Unfortunately they look really blurry when you try to photograph them.)

Cancun dining

Cancun restaurants

I started out with ceviche, because well, I love ceviche. It was awesome, especially after I added a little salsa de habanero.

ceviche Cancun

I’ve had La Habichuela’s classic dishes before, like the Amaranth Fish Fillet and the Cocobichuela, so this time I wanted to try something new. I went for the Giant Shrimp in Tamarind Sweet & Sour Sauce, and it was absolutely scrumptious.

seafood Cancun

There were little surprises throughout, like a sorbet palate cleanser and a Mayan digestif.

downtown Cancun restaurants

There was really no question about what we were going to order for dessert. We both ordered our favorite dessert of all time, the Kukulkan Pyramid. See the pyramid, the cenote and the serpents? #YUM

best restaurants Cancun

I have also dined at La Habichuela Sunset in the Hotel Zone, and although it was excellent, La Habichuela Downtown has my heart.

Cancun vacation

La Habichuela Downtown is located at #25 Calle Margaritas next to Parque de las Palapas.

Cancun aerial photo

March 7, 2016
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Cancun Safety Tips: The Real Dangers (the stuff nobody thinks of)

Cancun CVB

Cancun CVB

You’ve heard it before… Mexico is SO dangerous.

Do you ever wonder what Mexicans think about mass shootings in the U.S.?

Anyway, there’s no denying there is crime in Cancun, just like there is in any midsize to large city in the U.S. Of course, it’s always important to be pay attention to your surroundings and be careful (Would you walk home alone drunk at night in your city?) but for the most part, vacationers don’t have to worry about being kidnapped, raped, murdered or robbed.

However there are some other real dangers that you should be aware of.

  1. Drowning

A couple of weeks ago three tourists drowned in Cancun in one weekend. The turquoise Caribbean is so inviting, but it can be extremely dangerous.

Cancun is shaped like a 7. The beaches at the top of the 7 face Isla Mujeres (Island of Women) so they are protected from the open ocean and are generally calm and shallow. The beaches on the side of the 7 face the open Caribbean. They are the most beautiful beaches in Cancun, but they also can be the most dangerous.

There is a flag system to advise swimmers of current water conditions. Please pay attention to the flags. Last week a honeymooner ignored the black flag (which means no swimming) and drown. Tragic.

And never go swimming after dark or when you are intoxicated. #verybadidea

beach flags Cancun

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Black Flag:          Do not swim.

Red Flag:             Dangerous conditions.

Yellow Flag:       Use caution.

Green Flag:        Safe.

  1. Getting hit by a bus (or a car)

You’re on vacation, but a lot of other people are trying to get to work, the bank, the grocery store or at 4am, home from the club. Buses and cars travel very fast on the main drag in Cancun’s Hotel Zone, Boulevard Kukulcan. Running red lights, especially just as they turn red, is very common here, so please us extreme caution when you are crossing the street. Don’t just blindly trust traffic signals or some guy across the street telling you to cross now to make the bus. Pay attention and hold your kids’ hands. Just think of it this way… pedestrians do not have the right away in Cancun.


Cancun aerial photo

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  1. ATM skimmers

An ATM skimmer network was recently detected in Cancun. Your best bet is to only use ATMs that are in bank. Don’t use no-name ATMs in your resort or in malls, shopping centers, etc.

  1. Getting seriously injured and not having a credit card

If you’re smart you have insurance that will cover you while you are out of the country on vacation. However, the best hospitals in Cancun are the private ones (Galenia, Hospiten) and if you don’t have money, they won’t treat you. It is important to have a credit card with a high limit available in case of an emergency. Ask for all receipts and sort it out with the insurance company later.

Cancun sign

Additional tips:

*Whenever they are available, wear a seatbelt. Just because you’re in a tropical paradise doesn’t mean there aren’t fatal bus and car accidents. This includes ADO buses, passenger vans, taxis and rental cars.

*A sunburn can ruin your vacation. Sit in the shade and reapply sunblock often. You’ll still get a tan!

*Stay hydrated by drinking a lot of water. The combo of sweating and drinking alcohol can be really dehydrating.

*Don’t sit on balcony railings, they may not be secure. Quite a few vacationers have died this way!

*Watch where you are walking, especially in downtown Cancun. Sidewalks are broken and uneven and there are many open drains and manholes. (Yes sad but true.)

*For non-serious medical issues you can go to a pharmacy that offers free medical consultations. Ask about this in your resort.

*Driving in Cancun can also be dangerous: Living in Mexico Part 5

February 22, 2016
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Family Fun at Grand Oasis Palm in Cancun

A couple of weeks ago we spent 4 nights at the Grand Oasis Palm in Cancun’s Hotel Zone. This stay was extra special as my mom aka Grammy was with Bebé and I.

The Oasis Palm and Grand Oasis Palm are located next to the bridge that connects the Hotel Zone to the mainland. We stayed on the Grand Oasis Palm side where guests receive a few more amenities. It has a separate pool and beach and is quieter in general. All of the action takes place on the Oasis Palm side.

This was the view from our room!

Cancun hotels

Cancun resorts

And our room was so special! It was a kids room. Bebé loved it. The ENTIRE room was painted like this.

children's room Grand Oasis Palm

kids room Grand Oasis Palm

The first evening we checked in, unpacked and headed straight to dinner. The margaritas were perfection.

Cancun vacation

That first night I discovered that some musician friends play in the resort, which was a wonderful surprise. We went to see them every night. Per our usual resort schedule we also went to the show each night. They were all good except for one. We especially enjoyed the jump roping in the Urban show (really impressive) and the Michael Jackson tribute show (of course).

The next day it was “freezing”, so no swimming for us. Luckily we had reservations for the pirate ship excursion that is offered to guests each Friday. It was family-friendly and a lot of fun with music, games and general pirate silliness.


Captain Hook Cancun

pirate tour Cancun

pirate ship Cancun

That night, we ate at Maki Taco. They serve Asian-Mexican fusion food. This was by far our favorite restaurant on the property. (To be fair we couldn’t eat at The White Box, a highly rated gastrobar, because it is adult-only.) We ate at Maki Taco twice. Both the food and service were excellent. We also had an absolutely delicious dessert there.

Maki Taco Cancun

restaurants Grand Oasis Palm

So now I must bring up the white wine thing again. Just like at Grand Oasis Tulum, the resort’s house white wine is undrinkable. The first night we ate at Maki Taco I got lucky and was served some other wine, but the second time we ate there the house wine was back.

I made up for this by drinking A LOT of margaritas.

Cancun hotels

For lunch we really enjoyed the pizzas at Terraza Dos Lunas on the Oasis Palm side.

We ate breakfast each day at the buffet restaurant in the Grand section. Unfortunately it is truly too small for the number of guests. We had to wait in line every morning. Part of the problem was that it was chilly so people didn’t want to sit outside, but the buffet itself is still too small for the size of the building. Some of the food was OK and some of it was not so good. The made to order omlets are the best choice here. We never ate lunch or dinner at the buffet restaurants so I can’t comment on those.

I wish the a la carte restaurants had a simple children’s dinner menu available. They were always nice and tried to offer us options for Bebé but he is really picky so I had to run to the buffet looking for things he would eat. If I found something the staff was less than thrilled that I wanted to take it out of the restaurant.

My mom is a vegetarian and in every restaurant we visited they were very accomodating.

Coffee is important to Grammy and I. The coffee in the coffee shop was good, but the coffee in the room and in the buffet restaurant was not. Once we discovered this the problem was solved… we only drank coffee from the coffee shop.

Thank goodness the second day we were there it warmed up, so we spent some time by the pool and at the beach, which is calm and shallow.

beach Grand Oasis

beach Oasis Palm Cancun

Cancun beaches

It’s important to know that you have to get wherever you are going early if you want to get a chair.

On the Oasis Palm side they lend kayaks and paddleboards to guests so the three of us piled on a kayak and took a spin which we really enjoyed.

Bebé absolutely loved the kids pool and there were always chairs available there in the morning.

kids pool Oasis Palm

They have just redone the kids club, and I think it’s the biggest I’ve ever seen. It has full schedule of activities, its own pool complete with a waterslide, a video game room, a handicrafts room, a bungie trampoline, a napping area, a mini disco, a kids buffet, a food court and dining room, a “sweets” area, a playground and a beach club.

We tried a solo visit to the kids club but poor Bebé got upset so they brought him back to us after only about 15 minutes. 🙁 Parents cannot stay at the kids club with their children so that was it for us.

Oasis Palm kids club

There are all kinds of fun things going on at the Oasis Palm pool during the day. All three of us did the Zumba class, which was a lot of fun and an actual workout.

activities Oasis Palm

One day these cute girls showed up for pictures.

entertainment Oasis Palm

The last day Grammy spent some time at our pool while Bebé and I played catch in the ocean and built sand castles at the beach.

It’s important to note that this is a large resort on a small piece of land and it is economical compared to many resorts in Cancun, so there were lines for many things including, drinks, snacks and the buffet restaurants. That being said, if you understand this ahead of time, there is no reason you can’t have a wonderful vacation at Oasis Palm/Grand Oasis Palm.

We really enjoyed our stay and we made lots of treasured memories!

December 21, 2015
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I’m On a Boat in Cancun

Er well, I was on a boat in Cancun.

My friend, who you may remember from A Big Fat Fabulous Gay Wedding in Cancun, was recently in town for the weekend and brought a couple of friends with him. They were staying at the Presidente InterContinenal so we went to spend the day with them.

The beach at the Presidente InterContinenal is amazing and the water is calm and turquoise blue.

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I imagined we would spend the day lounging on the beach, in between building sand castles and playing football with Bebé, but after just one beer, an older gentleman approached us and began what I first thought to be a conversation, but soon discovered was a spiel.

He pointed to a yacht anchored a hundred or so meters off shore and explained how he normally rented it each day for lots and lots of money, but because the weather wasn’t very nice (it was starting to get cloudy and looked like it might rain) he was willing to send us out on the boat for an hour for 100 usd. He talked of sailing into the turquoise bay between Cancun and Isla Mujeres, and I think we all imagined a school of dolphins swimming and jumping next to the boat.

I was kind of thinking, “No way José,” and then the next thing I knew everyone was running back to the room for cash and the beer from the mini bar (which they brought down in the trash can from their room). 10 minutes later we were boarding a dingy to take us to the yacht.

Once we were aboard the capitan explained that his was a sailboat and it didn’t have an outboard motor. I didn’t really understand why he was telling us this until about 15 minutes into the “trip”.

We were drinking beer, listening to music and happily chatting when we realized that we were barely moving. We were just drifting really.

There was no wind.

We figured out pretty quickly that we wouldn’t be sailing to the island (Isla Mujeres) and back today. But well, we were on a boat, and we were in Cancun!

Then the paparazzi appeared (a blonde Russian woman on a jet ski).

Now I know how it feels to be Beyonce. It feels good.

We were probably all thinking we would never pay for the pictures, but what harm was there in letting her take them?

Except that after we drifted out for 30 minutes and back in for 30 minutes (I’m pretty sure we only traveled about 300 yards in total) we were whisked back to shore in the dingy, and were led into a dive shop and planted in front of a computer.

And these flashed on the screen to a very catchy tune.










And someone bought them (I mean of course they did, look at them) and I promised to record the day in a blog post.

The rest of the afternoon was spent much as I originally expected it would be, drinking, eating, playing and joking.

And feeling grateful for a wonderful day with wonderful people.


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December 3, 2015
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Maximum Relaxation at Grand Oasis Tulum, The Calm Resort

A couple of weeks ago Bebé and I spent a long weekend at Grand Oasis Tulum (which is actually in Akumal but whatevs).  It took us about 1 1/2 hours to get there so it really felt like we were getting away for the weekend.

Grand Oasis Tulum is an older property, and some areas are newer than others, but we visited during low season and I noticed they were working on renovations and upgrades.

Besides, we don’t need the Ritz Carlton to have a wonderful weekend! Grand Oasis Tulum had everything we needed for a mini beach vacation.  In the chain of Oasis hotels, this one is known as “The Calm Resort”. Now don’t get me wrong, they offer activites day and night, but during the day you don’t hear the blasting music and activities staff screaming over microphones.

The beach is spectacular. There is a reef a few hundred meters off shore where the waves break, so the water is relative calm. We spent hours swimming. There were loads of fish right off shore, literally swimming around our feet. There were a lot of pelicans too, and they were contastly dive-bombing for fish, often just a few feet away from us. It was pretty magical.

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resorts Akumal

Grand Oasis Tulum beach


Our spot. (Not sure why we have a spot, we never, ever sit down.)


There was a dock with hammocks at the end that was really beautiful. Every day they held yoga classes there. Much of the time the hammocks were unoccupied.

Oasis Tulum beach

Tulum resorts

There are kayaks available but it was pretty windy most of the time we were there so we didn’t get to take one out. The resort offers a free snorkel tour of the reef. Bebé has been practicing but he isn’t ready for that yet.

The pools were basic but nice (And there were three swim-up pool bars!), but they were actually colder than the ocean and since it wasn’t sunny and hot we didn’t spend a lot of time in them.

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This is a picture of the pool outside of our room taken on the last day when it was sunny (figures).

Riviera Maya vacation

They have tons of beach beds by the main pool.

beach beds

We stuck to our usual resort routine… breakfast – fun – lunch – fun – nap and rest – cocktails (only for mommy) – dinner – show. It works well for us. Bebé can’t make it though the evening without a nap.


Our room was all cleaned up each time we headed there for nap time which was great. Housekeeping does a really good job (you should always tip housekeeping staff, they make very little money) and they even loaned me an iron when I needed one.

The Martini Bar in the lobby was amazing! The cocktails are mixed well and the Cuban pianist is extremely talented. It was so relaxing! I wish I could have spent more time there every evening but we had to get to dinner before showtime.

When I posted this picture of my handsome boy on Facebook during our stay, my sister-in-law pointed out that it might be better to have a bigger drink and a smaller candle. I can’t say I disagreed…


Then, same place, next evening… an even smaller drink, an even bigger candle.

Martini Bar


There is an entertaining show every single night. The food is good and there are a lot of options, especially for Grand guests. I should mention that Oasis Tulum and Grand Oasis Tulum are on the same property but Grand guests receive more amenities. Bebé was happy because they had little boxes of Fruit Loops at breakfast. As usual, the a la carte restaurants were a little better than the buffet, but the buffet offered a lot of choices. There are two coffee shops that serve good coffee drinks. However don’t order the milkshake. It’s not a milkshake. Oh and the house white wine is undrinkable. Yes you heard me right, undrinkable.

The staff was very accomodating. The a la carte restaurants don’t offer a children’s menu, but the chefs always did us a solid and made breaded chicken for us.

The weather wasn’t great, but it wasn’t pouring rain either, so we just made the best of it. It was actually kind of nice to not worry about getting a sunburn and it always seemed to rain at convenient times, like when we were in the room. We really enjoyed our stay!

November 13, 2015
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2015 Xcaret Day of the Dead Festival

The day after Bebé’s blow-out Michael Jackson birthday party we were both really tired, but missing Xcaret’s Festival de Tradiciones de Vida y Muerte, which celebrates the Mexican holiday Dia de Muertos (Day of the Dead) was simply not an option. We look forward to it every year.

This year I decided to paint my face at home instead of using the face paint they have available at the park, so I bought some face paint and some crayon-type things.

I imagined it would (or wanted it to) look like this… #expectation


It ended-up looking like this… #reality

how to dress for day of the dead

But well, at least I looked scary… and dead!

I knew Bebé would fall asleep in the car so I decided to paint his face when we got to the park.

There is always a beautiful Catrina greeting festival-goers at the entrance. I don’t think she did her own make-up.

Xcaret Park Festival de Tradiciones de Vida y Muerte

Bebé wanted to wear his Michael Jackson jacket to the festival.

Bebé agreed to take a selfie with Mom. This doesn’t happen as often as it used to. I really love this picture of us.


We had never done this before, but this year we lit a candle for my Grandma Arloa, who passed away about a year and a half ago. This is actually what Day of the Dead is all about, remembering loved ones who have passed on.

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Then we headed to a performance in the Mayan village.

Xcaret Mayan performance

Xcaret Mayan village

Afterwards we strolled through the cemetery and the area where the altars were set up.


Xcaret Festival Vida y Muerte

Xcaret cemetery

catrina Xcaret

Day of the Dead altarHow awesome does this girl look?

Xcaret Dia de Muertos Festival

Had to take a photo of these beautiful señoras in traditional Yucatecan dress.

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My camera does not take good pictures of the performances, but as usual, they were professional, heartwarming and entertaining.

It should be noted that all of the performances at the Xcaret Festival de Tradiciones de Vida y Muerte are in Spanish.

Oh, and we got the shot for next year’s official poster…

Dia de Muertos Cancun